Written by: Langley Community Services Society
Moving to a new country can feel intimidating. You are adjusting to a new city while also navigating a different way of life. Whether you arrive from a busy urban center or a quiet rural town, settling into life in Canada brings opportunities and challenges. One of the most important steps in making your new city feel like home is finding community. Here are four practical tips to help you connect with others and build a sense of belonging.
1. Be Open to Feeling Uncomfortable
Starting over can feel awkward. Local customs may be unfamiliar, the language might sound different, and even simple greetings can feel foreign. That is normal. Growth often begins with discomfort. Give yourself permission to be a beginner. Every smile and small interaction is a step toward belonging.
These first weeks may feel uncertain, but they also bring new insights and experiences. You’ll meet people from diverse backgrounds and discover strengths you didn’t know you had. Life is full of firsts; jobs, homes, and new experiences. This is simply another moment that, with time, will become part of your story.
Attend a local event or workshop even if you are unsure what to expect. You may be surprised by the welcome you receive.
Many settlement agencies also offer integration programs that can help facilitate community participation. If you’re thinking about relocating to Langley BC, feel free to check out our free Community Engagement Programs.
2. Ask Questions, Even If You Fear Rejection
If you are unsure about transit, grocery shopping, or local expressions, ask. Canadians are often polite and helpful, and curiosity is usually welcomed. Go further and ask even if you fear being misunderstood. Sometimes the answer won’t be clear, but you may be directed to someone who can help, or you may learn something new altogether.
Questions also spark conversations that can lead to friendships. You might discover where to find familiar foods, learn about a favourite local café, or hear about a community event. These moments of openness often create valuable connections. Try asking, “I’m new here, do you mind if I ask how this works?” as a simple conversation starter.
3. Give a Compliment
Compliments are a simple way to connect. Kind words about someone’s outfit, attitude, or even a book suggestion, can break the ice. You don’t need perfect grammar or cultural fluency to offer kindness.
Everyday spaces such as coffee shops, libraries, or grocery stores are good places to practice. A warm comment to a barista, librarian, or shopper can lead to a positive exchange and a familiar face in the future. Try, “I love your jacket! Where did you get it?” to open a conversation. This will not only allow you to practice your small-talk skills, but it might lead to a meaningful friendship down the line.
4. Visit Your Local Settlement Agency
Settlement agencies exist across Canada to support newcomers. These organizations provide language classes, job search help, housing guidance, childcare information, and community programs.
Many programs bring together newcomers from all over the world, creating natural opportunities to connect with others on similar journeys. Staff understand the challenges you face and can guide you with respect and compassion.Search online for settlement services in your area. A helpful directory is available through the Government of Canada.
Final Thoughts
Finding your community takes patience, but each effort plants a seed. Stay curious, keep reaching out, and remember that you are not alone. Thousands of newcomers have walked this path before you, and many are walking it now.
Welcome to Canada! Your new chapter is just beginning.
Resources:
https://www.lcss.ca/programs-and-services/settlement-integration-services/communityengagement/
